What Boxing Thought Me About Failure And Success.

I'm not a fan of Boxing, cause it amaze me how people punch each other to earn a living.  Well! may be that's because I enjoyed more tender hands of my parents. But a couple of times, from an unconscious interest,  I have watched Muhammed Ali's fights in which he won both, defeating his opponents not just by words but also by the power of not clinching to the ground after every fall.

He won not because he was not beaten neither is he untouched. Infact, he fell more often than the opponent. Sometimes, I feel the heftiness his opponent blows on his face. It looks as if he his loosing focus and at times fell. 

I could feel the pains from His fans among the audience who were pained by his fall,  I could hear the commentator sprouting words and the referee counting down ten.

With all these communication disturbance,  it is as if there was an echo saying to him "now is not the right time for you to fall" and Alas! Defying every negative factor he rose,  rose to look more fit,  bypassing the gravitation of those blows, standing fit on his feet and extending his hands once more, ready to give it another try. Then I remember Nopleon Hill's words "No one ever is defeated until defeat has been accepted as a reality."

Failure is not about the number of falls but in giving in to not rising – not trying again. The time may be hard and every thing may seem tearing apart.  You may have given several tries and failure may be the winter breeze, cloaking you down to a thought of depression. My friend don't give up. Many now successful people failed more than you. Infact, they still do,  even more often than you. But were not tag failure anymore, now we say they are successful because of their refusal to quit. "One of the most common causes of failure is the habit of quitting when one is overtaken by temporary defeat." Said Hill.
Do, but never stopped giving a try.  Better oops!  Than if.  Know that every trial is an experience,  an experience to give another try in a better way. "No man ever achieved worthwhile success who did not, at one time or other, find himself with at least one foot hanging well over the brink of failure."

Most of the successful people you know, today tell sweet stories of their better past. Asked them or read about them,  you would find out that they took more risk and not just more but the huge ones.They faced obstacles and stiƂ are,  fell and rose. They don't just wait for opportunity but visited it with hard work – they were prepared. After trying several paths, they finally discovered that of success.

"Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up." #Thomas A Edison Just be sure with persistent striving for success you shall one day tell your story too with a smile.

You may have come a quote by Thomas A Edison "I have not failed. I've just found 10000 ways that won't work." What an experience!
You are strong,  stronger than you know or may you know but ignore the fact that you do. You outran million sperms to get to your mothers egg,  you survived the hardship of 9months in her womb, some even more. You've survived several harsh winters and hot summers.  Then why give up now. "Hang in there,  my Dear. This,  too,  shall pass." That was one of the best facebook post I have ever read on a friend's post. It's not that I have never heard similar words but it just came when I almost gave up.
You were born the hard way, had to face the hard way so you would be strong. So my friend, like Ali, rise! stand back on your feet,  be focus, be stronger and ones again stretch those hands. just know the bulls reverse is not often as a result of defeat nor fear but to pump moment of striking to win.  Gather all experience and give it the right try.

Quotes of motivation....
Henry Ford "Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eyes off your goals."
"Failure is simply an opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently."




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